Your guide to an affirming and celebratory wedding for trans and non-binary people, by someone who’s been there before.

When I got married, I didn’t just get to marry the love of my life—I also had to navigate a heap of legal forms, old systems, and gendered boxes that weren’t made for someone like me.

So whether you're planning a romantic escape, a low-key legal ceremony, or a full destination wedding celebration, this guide will walk you through how LGBTQIA+ or Queer couples from overseas can get married in Australia—legally, simply, and joyfully.

Your celebrant is so much more than just the person who reads some legal words and signs your paperwork. They’re your storyteller. Your vibe-setter. The one standing beside you as you take a massive (and emotional!) leap into married life.

Being a disabled person getting married is a radical act of joy. You are claiming space in a world that too often tries to limit or ignore us—and saying, “This is love. This is worthy. This is mine.”

Alright lovebirds, let’s talk paperwork! I know—it’s not the sexiest part of planning your wedding, but trust me, understanding how wedding certificates work (and what to do with them) will make everything so much smoother on the day and beyond.