Your guide to an affirming and celebratory wedding for trans and non-binary people, by someone who’s been there before.

When I got married, I didn’t just get to marry the love of my life—I also had to navigate a heap of legal forms, old systems, and gendered boxes that weren’t made for someone like me.

Being a disabled person getting married is a radical act of joy. You are claiming space in a world that too often tries to limit or ignore us—and saying, “This is love. This is worthy. This is mine.”