Your guide to an affirming and celebratory wedding for trans and non-binary people, by someone who’s been there before.

When I got married, I didn’t just get to marry the love of my life—I also had to navigate a heap of legal forms, old systems, and gendered boxes that weren’t made for someone like me.

Alright lovebirds, let’s talk paperwork! I know—it’s not the sexiest part of planning your wedding, but trust me, understanding how wedding certificates work (and what to do with them) will make everything so much smoother on the day and beyond.